I've lived many lives: college student, lover, Orthodox Jew, escort, celibate monk, truth-seeker, recluse. But our true callings have a way of finding us. And mine finally found me...
You see, I was born to be a teacher. Even as a kid, I was playing school while my friends were playing house. For as long as I can remember, I’ve been hungry for truth, understanding, knowledge, and connection. And I gave up everything to satisfy that hunger.
Today, I lead workshops, host retreats, and teach courses on life transformation all over the world. I share practical spirituality and conscious awakening in corporate boardrooms, in packed auditoriums, on white sand beaches, in online courses, and in cozy living rooms.
Sharing deep, life-altering truth with the world lights me up, and it is my privilege and my mission to bring a message of exploration, transformation, and humanity to the people I work with.
It is my privilege and my mission to bring a message of exploration, transformation, and humanity to the people I work with.
I didn’t arrive at my calling overnight. My journey has been messy and confusing. It’s cracked me open and brought me to places of darkness and despair. But it’s also forged a solid ground of authenticity, passion, and purpose, and I have nothing but gratitude for every step along my path.
I began my career as a teacher (no surprise there!). With my bachelor’s in Alternative Education and my master’s in History and Philosophy of Education, I set out to change my students’ worlds. But as a young teacher, I realized that I couldn’t support others in their personal development when I had hit a wall in my own. I wasn’t living my own truth, so how could I help others live theirs?
This moment of realization triggered a decade-long dive into spirituality and self-discovery.
I was eager to learn the truth about the universe, all life, and the human condition, but I couldn’t find the right guides. Every education system, religious institution, and new age community felt too insulated, constricted, and myopic—and, believe me, I tried nearly everything.
So, I decided to create my own school, outside of all the systems. I pursued a self-guided study of human wisdom teachings, spending ten years in retreat studying, contemplating and practicing various tools for transformation.
In those years, my connection with the outside world was essentially limited to weekly grocery shopping trips. I isolated myself from everything in order to find meaning, purpose, and knowledge.
I studied traditional religious texts, esoteric teachings, and philosophy. I practiced yoga, mindful breathwork, and meditation daily. I experimented with more extreme asceticism including austerities such as fasting, voluntary simplicity, and long periods of silence. I explored the teachings of Buddhism, Judaism, Christianity, Native Peoples, Advaita Vedanta/Hinduism, Tantra, Toltec Wisdom, and the Tao.
Over time I became able to strip away the tangled religious rhetoric, new-age jargon, and moral dogma from all of these different belief systems. It was then that I found the space to listen for the answers to my ceaseless questing. Who am I? Why am I here? What is this all about?
In that quiet, untethered space, the answers found me and opened me to my deepest, truest, authentic self.
So, after ten years in isolated retreat, I re-entered the world, picked up where I left off as an educator, and created Selfistry. Full circle.
Now, I help others step into and live from that deep, authentic self. I want to bring others to this beautiful place of centeredness, clarity, and alignment—without the ten years it took me to get there.
Because, here’s the thing: spiritual authenticity and personal wholeness isn’t limited, restricted, or exclusive. It’s so available for you, my friend!
Maybe you’re living in an urban high rise, or maybe you live at the end of a dirt road in the Midwest. Maybe you’ve explored every spiritual practice under the sun (and still feel empty), or maybe you still go to the church you were raised in. Maybe you’re married with kids, or maybe you’re still exploring your sexuality. No matter what, this open, vibrant, authentic life is for YOU.
One final reminder: my journey has been full of imperfections, just like yours. So, if you’re still in the middle of the darkness? There’s hope.
A few things you should know about me…
- There’s enough for all of us.
- The answers are already inside of you…but you may need a guiding hand to uncover them. I know I did.
- We live our best lives when we live from a calm center.
- Rules are overrated (and often outdated).
- You have access to inner wisdom and contentment right now.
- All humans are valuable, no matter what.
- Every meal should be nutritious, delicious, and beautiful.
- Life is pure magic and the only proper response to any of it is awe.
- We are happiest when we source joy from the inside.
- A burger should always be grass fed, cooked medium-rare, and served with a pile of fries & a dill pickle.